In April 2005, â€œWaiting for Qudsâ€ premiered at the Chicago International Documentary Film Festival where it was selected as a â€œFavorite Pic.â€ It screened at the DocAviv Film Festival in Tel Aviv also. Blachor worked on the film for the last three years. She says the response has been positive and overwhelming, as well as extremely gratifying.
â€œWaiting for Qudsâ€ chronicles the inspiring lives of a Muslim Palestinian man and an Israeli woman who fell in love, married and managed the birth of their first child while the man was a political prisoner in administrative detention.
In fall 2002, Director Devorah Blachor began filming Abed al-Ahmar and Allegra Pacheco four months after their wedding. Blachor wanted to know how her cousin, Allegra, who grew up in a Jewish-American, middle-class family on Long Island and then immigrated to Israel, married a Muslim Palestinian man from Deheisheh – a refugee camp outside of Bethlehem.
â€œHow did she get from there to here?â€ Blachor asks. On November 22, 2002, three months after the director began filming a score of Israeli Security Service troops; the Shin Bet with their military accoutrements raided the couplesâ€™ home and arrested Abed. For the next 20 months, he remained in administrative detention, without charge or trial, in Israeli prisons.
Allegra, the only Israeli legal advisor for the UN Relief and Works Agency, was five months pregnant. Abedâ€™s duress was inimical for her condition, which caused stress and anxiety. When she traveled to the hospital, she wore a bulletproof vest.
After her first prison visit, she told a Norwegian journalist over the phone what happened the early, Friday morning they took her husband. She recalled a Shin Bet troop saying: â€œWe donâ€™t have the package, but we have a relative of the package.â€
Abed is no stranger to Israeli jails. When Abed was 16 Moshe Levenger, the head of the settler movement and other settlers attacked the people of Deheisheh, wrecked their vegetable stores and broke school windows. In response, Abed and his friends threw stones and Molotov cocktails. The IDF arrested him and he spent the next, four years in prison.
According to an August 6, 2004 Haâ€™aretz article, Israeli journalist Gideon Levy wrote Abedâ€™s eleven years of imprisonment was the longest time served by any administrative detainee in an Israeli prison. Palestinians in administrative detention are held without trial or charge. The judges, who preside in military courts, renew their prison sentences anywhere from 90 to 180 days. Blachor interviewed Levy, who described Abed as a man of peace with a noble spirit.
Abed told the story of how he met his wife. In 1996-97, he met Allegra in a Russian compound when she became his lawyer. Abed experienced severe torture and Allegra was sympathetic to his tragic experiences. Over time and numerous discussions, they established a rapport.
Abed, whose father fled their native village Rafat, Wadi Arar in 1946-47, grew up impoverished under military occupation. After Abed talked with Allegra, she was not like the Israeli prison guards who joked and who laughed while he was in pain. He described the realization as the contrast of two colors: there is black, then white appears, and the white stands out next to the black. His emphatic words accentuated the contrast of colors and the people they represented to him. Abedâ€™s face, effused with feeling, exuded honesty.
With his voice in the background, Blachor focused on several childrenâ€™s faces in the camp. One boy, crouched near a high window, stared at the camera. A girl smiled in front of a metal lattice shaped like a flower; and then another boy stood behind barbed wire. The close-ups of the children vivified Abedâ€™s childhood account and his feelings about the right to return.
During her fourth year in Jewish, religious school, Allegra lived in Jerusalem where she studied in a womenâ€™s religious school. Every weekend they visited a new Israeli settlement in the West Bank, but they never talked about the Palestinians. After several return visits Allegraâ€™s views changed, so she interned with Leah Tzemel, a well-known Israeli lawyer who defends Palestiniansâ€™ rights. After a short stint as a lawyer on Wall Street, Allegra returned to the Middle East where she became a lawyer for UNRWA.
Allegra recalled how Abed expressed concern when she told him about the suicide bus bombings. They made a connection in their conversations because their thoughts were from the same page. The attraction of their minds metamorphosed into a budding romance.
Although Allegra cared for Abed, the political, religious, social, and cultural obstacles between them felt insurmountable. She expressed her thoughts, but Abed pursued her. He wrapped his secret love letters in wool thread. He wrote to her until the birds sang past midnight. Allegra followed her heart.
Her mother, Phyllis, disliked the nasty comments expressed by some of her family members. Even though they called her daughter a self hating Jew, she said that Allegra wants a better life for Jews in Israel. Abedâ€™s mother, Maryam was reluctant about the marriage. After she met Allegra, she felt at ease. Now, she tells everyone to marry an American woman.
Between the montage of interviews with their family members, Allegra and Abed maintain their pregnancy partnership on the phone. Yeala, their birth assistant, held the phone next to the sonogram so Abed could hear the babyâ€™s heartbeat. Despite appeals in military courts, Israeli judges renewed Abedâ€™s detention. His lawyer could not see the secret evidence against him.
As a couple they possessed several IDs: American citizenship, Israeli citizenship and Palestinian refugee status. With the baby almost due, Allegra decided she and the baby would be refugees. They named their son Quds: the Arabic word for Jerusalem. Are they a foreshadowing of one potential future for some Israelis and Palestinians? Will love break the walls between the people?
Perhaps Abed and Allegraâ€™s marriage will pave the way for Palestinians and Israelis afraid to marry in the Holy Land because of societal pressures and systematic challenges.
Through love, anything is possible.